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On problems and talking about them

Fri 15 Oct 2010 by mskala Tags used: ,

I don't ever want to care so strongly about my problems that I would - even for a moment - hesitate to accept a solution to them for fear of losing that investment.

I also don't ever want my friends to think "Matt is unhappy!" is the problem, and use that as a comfortable excuse for ignoring the reasons I'm unhappy, and my feelings as an easy target for non-solutions that explicitly ignore or even deny the real issues. That's a pretty good reason never to talk about being unhappy at all.

2 comments

kiwano
For some reason, I can't tell if this is a new post, or a post that's been copied over from your old site and just looks new.. :P kiwano - 2010-10-17 14:02
Matt
Not all my readers have been reading as long as you have. Matt - 2010-10-17 14:25


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